Ang Kulit Lang

Kung ikaw ay Pilipino o lumaki ka sa Pilipinas, ay sigurado akong may kakilala kang Bam-Bam, o Bong-Bong, o Che-Che, o Don-Don, o Jun-Jun, o Nene, o Ning-Ning, o Ping-Ping, o Toto. Siguro idagdag mo pa sina Mac-Mac, Mik-Mik, Mimi, Noy-Noy, Jan-JanLan-Lan, Lot-Lot, Jojo, Pen-PenTin-Tin, Ton-Ton, Kaka, RaraNana, Nini, NonoGang-Gang at Ging-Ging. Lahat ng mga pangalang binanggit ko ay mga kakilala ko.

May kilala rin akong Gaga at Gung-gung. Marami sila.

Bakit nga ba tayong mga Pilipino ay mahilig sa mga pangalang inuulit? Siguro ay makulit lang tayo kaya’t gusto natin ng inuulit-ulit. O kaya nama’y sobra lang tayo sa imahinasyon na gumawa ng makwela o mabantot na pangalan? Pero kung tutuusin uso na ang pangalang inuulit panahon pa ni Lapu-Lapu.

Hindi lang pangalan ng tao, kundi kahit mga lugar sa Pilipinas, ay may pangalang inuulit. Gaya ng Taytay, Iloilo, Guagua, Wawa, Tawi-Tawi, Sanga-Sanga, Hinulugang Taktak, at Mount Hibok-Hibok. Ako naman ay lumaki sa may Balik-Balik. Ang kulit ‘no?

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Meron din tayong mga pagkaing Pilipino na binigyan natin ng pangalang inuulit. Tulad ng kare-kare, bilo-bilo, tibok-tibok, pichi-pichi, kwek-kwek at poqui-poqui. Hindi po bastos ‘yung huling putahe, lutong Ilocano po iyon.

Siguro isama na natin pati tawag natin sa mga hayop. Mula sa maliit na kiti-kiti, hanggang sa malaking lumba-lumba. Andiyan din ang paru-paro, gamu-gamo, batu-bato, sapsap, at plapla. Pati nga bulaklak, gaya ng ilang-ilang at waling-waling. Bilib ka na?

At siyempe pa, pati maselang bahagi ng ating katawan, ang tawag natin ay inuulit din. Hindi lang kili-kili ang tinutukoy ko. Pati ti__, pek__, at su__. Awat na?

Aking nabasa na hindi lang daw ang wikang Pilipino ang mahilig sa mga inuulit na salita. Ang ating wika ay nagmula sa pamilya ng Malayo-Polynesian na mga lingwahe. Ang mga wikang ito ay may hilig na magdikit-dikit at magkawing-kawing ng mga kataga upang gumawa ng mga bagong salita. Maraming pagkakataon, inuulit ang unang component ng salita. Kaya siguro may Mahimahi sa Hawaii, at may Bora-Bora sa French Polynesia.

Kaya kung pinangalanan kang Pot-Pot o Keng-Keng, ay sisihin mo na lang ang ating mga sinaunang ninuno at mga tatang. Anak ng teteng talaga!

Kadalasan kapag ang isang salita ay inuulit ay tumitindi ang kahulugan nito. Kumbaga sa Ingles, ito’y nagiging superlative. Tulad ng kapag sinabing ang husay, ibig sabihin ay magaling. Pero kapag sinabing ang husay-husay, ay ibang liga na iyon at maaaring genius na ito. Kapag laksa, nangangahulugan ito’y marami, subalit kapag laksa-laksa, siguradong matatabunan ka na ‘nun. Kapag sinabing ang pangit mo, ay baka nagsasabi lang sila ng totoo. Pero kapag sinabihan kang ang pangit-pangit mo, ay insulto at away na ang hanap nito. Brod, tara sa labas!

Mayroon din tayong mga salita na tuluyang naiiba ang kahulugan kapag inuulit. Tulad ng bola, ito ‘yung isinu-shoot sa goal. Pero kapag bola-bola ito yung tinutusok at sinasawsaw. Baka iba namang tinutusok at sinasawsaw ang nasa isisp mo? Fishball tinutukoy ko ‘Te. Kapag sinabing turo, maaring tungkol sa maestra o sa paaralan. Pero pag-sinabing turo-turo, ay karinderya na ‘yan. Kapag halo lang ay parang walang dating sa akin. Ngunit kapag binanggit mong halo-halo, ay maglalaway na ako, dahil miss na miss ko na ‘yan.

Maari ring inuulit ang isang salita para ibahin ang verb tense ng isang pangungusap. Tulad ng hawak, ginagawang hawak-hawak para maging present participle tense. Kung baga sa Ingles, dinadagdagan ng –inglike hold to holding. Suot ginagawang suot-suot. At ang salitang bitbit, kahit inuulit na ito, pero uulit-ulitin pa rin.

Example: Bitbit-bitbit ni Pepe ang patpat at tingting.

Meron din naman tayong mga salita na kapag hindi inuulit ay walang kahulugan. Gaya ng sinto-sinto na ang ibig sabihin ay baliw. Ano naman ang ibig sabihin ng sinto? Medyo baliw? O kaya’y guni-guni na ibig sabihin ay ilusyon lang. Ano naman ang ibig sabihin ng guni? Kalahating ilusyon lang? O kaya naman ay kuro-kuro, na ibig sabihin ay opinyon. Ano naman ang kuro? Walang opinyon?

May mga salita ding inuulit, na tayo lang mga Pilipino ang tunay na nakakaintindi, dahil kasama na ito sa hibla ng ating kultura. Tulad ng tabo-tabo, pito-pito, tagay-tagay, at ukay-ukay.

Bilang kunklusyon, maaaring sabi-sabi at haka-haka lang ang mga nilahad ko dito. Maari rin itong bunga ng aking pagmumuni-muni o kaya nama’y guni-guni lamang. O siguro ito’y mga kuro-kuro ng isang kukurap-kurap at aantok-antok na pag-iisip. Kaway-kaway na lang kung inyong naibigan. At huwag namang bara-bara at sana’y hinay-hinay lang sa pagtawa, at baka mapagkamalian kayong luko-luko at luka-luka. Salamat po.

(*photo taken in Bagac, Bataan)

 

 

Question and Answer: Sakit sa Balakang (2)

I have been asked diverse questions on this blog, from how much is a kilo of chicken liver, or where to get anting-anting, to how to counter a kulam. But there are some medical questions as well.

A certain Adrian, asked me a question regarding his condition, and I would like to answer him through this post. I hope the information here would help him and others who may have a similar problem.

Hi Doc,

May ilang buwan na din po nasakit yung right side ng balakang ko pati po yung kanang binti ko. Ngayon nararamdaman ko parang lumalala na kase diko na mapaliwanag yung sakit, masakit na nangangalay. Nung una po nangangalay lang yung right leg ko kaya binalewala ko lang, sinisipa-sipa ko lang hanggang sa tumagal nararamdaman ko na lumalala na. Hindi na ko makatayo ng matagal kase nangangalay yung binti ko at sumasakit din hanggang sa pag upo yung balakang at binti ko sabay sumasakit na parang na-ngilo ūüėĎ.

Pati sa pag higa nangangalay pa din kaya palagi ako nakatagilid, hanggang sa pag gising at pag bangon ko doc masakit. Hindi ko na kaya iunat yung dalawang binti ko kase sumasakit ng sobra yung likod ko dun sa gitnang part ng balakang. Pati pag yuko masakit parang konektado sa buto pababa ng binti yung sakit kapag nayuko ako ūüėĘ.

Doc may simtomas ako ng scoliosis. Dahil po ba dun yon kaya sumasakit yung balakang at binti ko?

Nagpa check-up na po kame sa doctor. Nag pakuha na po ko ng ihi at dugo at wala naman nakita. Niresitahan lang ako ng gamot tapos nag pa x-ray ako. Hindi naman ganun kalala yung scoliosis ko pero napansin ko na hindi na pantay yung balakang ko, doc mejo mataas yung right side. Patulong naman doc ūüėě.

Salamat po.

Salamat Adrian sa iyong tanong. Dahil medyo extensive and pagkaka-describe mo ng mga sintomas mo, kaya may idea ako kung anong nangyayari sa iyo. Siyempre iba pa rin yung tunay na harap-harapang pag-tingin at pag-examen sa iyo ng duktor.

Una sa lahat ang tungkol sa scoliosis. Scoliosis is defined as lateral curvature of the spine. Maraming maaaring sanhi ng scoliosis, tulad ng neuromuscular disease (tulad ng polio), vertebral disease (tulad ng osteoporosis, tuberculosis of the spine, Rickets), disorder of connective tissue (gaya ng mga genetic disorder na Marfan’s syndrome at Ehler Danlos syndrome), at iba pa.

Kadalasan ang pinakaapektado ng scoliosis ay ang thoraco-lumbar area. Kung malala talaga ang curvature ng scoliosis, maaring maapektuhan ang mga chest organs tulad ng baga at puso, dahil unti-unti silang naiipit o nasasakal. Maari ring maapektuhan ang mga muscles ng braso at hita at ito’y humihina.

Ang evaluation ng scoliosis ay sinusukat kung gaano kalala yung angle ng curvature. Kung hindi naman masyadong malala, ay pwedeng conservative management lang, tulad ng mga strengthening exercises and therapy sa spine o kaya ay paglalagay ng brace.

Kung talagang malala naman ang curvature, ay maaring lagyan ng bakal (rods) ang spine para ito dumiretso. Payo ko lang, huwag lang sa magbabakal o sa talyer kayo magpalagay ng bakal sa likod, kung hindi sa kwalipikadong orthopedic surgeon.

Adrian, hindi ko matiyak kung ang nararamdaman mo ay sanhi ng iyong scoliosis. Pero sa pagkaka-describe mo, ang aking hinala ay lumbosacral radiculopathy ang iniinda mo. Ibig sabihin, parang naiipit na yung ugat (nerve root) sa may vertebrae mo sa lumbosacral area, kaya’t parang nangangalay, sumasakit, at nanghihina ang iyong likod, balakang at mga binti.

Ang mga pinakamadalas na sanhi ng lumbosacral radiculopathy ay vertebral disc herniation (disc bulging out causing nerve root compression) at spondylosis (narrowing of the intraspinal canal due to degenerative arthritis). Mga iba pang sanhi ng lumbosacral radiculopathy ay infection, inflammation, neoplasm (tumors), at vascular disease.

Ang pinaka-magandang evaluation kung hinihinalang may lumbosacral radiculopathy ay CT scan o kaya MRI of the spine. Ang simpleng x-ray lang ay maaring hindi sapat na evaluation.

Hindi naman lahat ng sanhi ng lumbosacral radiculopathy ay kinakailangan ng surgery. Minsan pwedeng gamot lang gaya ng anti-inflammatory agents, o exercises, o physcial therapy ay uubra na. Baka makatulong kahit si Mang Kepweng.

Pero rinirikumenda ko pa rin na mag-follow-up ka sa iyong lokal na duktor, at kung kinakailangan kang i-refer sa espesyalistang nararapat, ay ito ang pinakamabuting gawin mo.

Adrian, sana ay nakatulong ito sa iyo. At paki-padala na lang yung dalawang hopiang munggo na bayad ko. Salamat po.

Doctor, Doctor, I am Sick

Sa isang Health Center sa maliit na barrio sa Pilipinas……

Pasyente: Doc, sumasakit po ang mata ko.

Duktor: Paanong sakit?

Pasyente: Para po siyang tinusok.

Duktor: Ah ganoon ba? Kailan pa iyan?

Pasyente: Doc, tuwing umiinom po ako ng maiinit na kape.

Duktor: Eh kapag umiinom ka ng malamig na tubig? Sumasakit din ba ang mata mo?

Pasyente: Hindi naman po.

Duktor: Kapag umiinom ka ng soft drink? O kaya ng beer?

Pasyente: Hindi rin po.

Pinagmasdan ng duktor ang pasyente, at nakitang may parang bugbog sa talukap ng mata ang pasyente.

Duktor: Alam ko na ang sanhi ng pananakit ng mata mo. Madali lang din ang solusyon sa problema mo.

Pasyente: Talaga po? Ano po iyon?

Duktor: Bago mo higupin ang kape mo, ay tanggalin mo muna ang kutsara sa tasa, para hindi matusok ang iyong mata.

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Susunod na pasyente……

Duktor: Napabalik ka? Mabisa ba yung nireseta kong gamot sa iyo?

Pasyente: Kaya nga po ako bumalik Doc, kasi hindi po magaling iyong gamot na ibinigay ninyo. Para pa ring sinisilaban ang aking tumbong. Masasakit at gabulaklak pa rin po iyong mga almuranas ko.

Duktor: Ginamit mo ba iyong nireseta kong gamot?

Pasyente: Opo. Araw-araw pa nga po, hanggang maubos iyong nireseta ninyo.

Tinignan ng duktor ang kanyang medical chart at sinigurado kung tama ba ang binigay niyang gamot.

Duktor: Sang-ayon sa record ko, niresetahan kita ng Kontra-almuranas na suppository para sa isang lingo.

Pasyente: Oo nga po. Hirap na hirap nga po akong lunukin iyon, at ang sama-sama pa po ng lasa!

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Pangatlong pasyente………

Pasyente: Doc, sana po matulungan ninyo ako. Feeling ko po invisible man ako. Kasi wala po sa aking pumapansin, eh.

Duktor: Next patient please!

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Sumunod na pasyente………

Tatay: Doc, pakitignan naman po ninyo itong aking anak.

Duktor: Ano bang nangyari sa anak mo?

Tatay: Nalulon po niya yung pang-ahit kong blade.

Duktor: Ha?! Kailan pa?

Tatay: Noon isang linggo po.

Duktor: Bakit ngayon mo lang dinala at ano ang ginawa mo?

Tatay: Eh di ginagamit ko na lang muna na pang-ahit ¬†‘yung labaha po.

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Huling pasyente………

Pasyente: Duktor, hindi po ako nireregla.

Duktor: Baka naman buntis ka?

Pasyente: Naku, sana nga magdilang anghel kayo! Pero wala naman pong lalaking pumapatol sa akin kahit anong gawin ko. Kaya sigurado po akong hindi ako buntis.

Duktor: Teka, kailan ka pa ba hindi nireregla?

Pasyente: Mula’t sapul po hindi ako dinadatnan ng pagreregla.

Mataimtim na kinilatis ng duktor ang pasyente.

Duktor: Hija, masakit ko mang sabihin sa iyo, pero hindi ka talaga magkakaregla.

Pasyente: Bakit po?

Duktor: Eh kasi lalaki ka.

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(Ang mga kuwentong ito ay hatid sa inyo ng kabag…… sa utak. Pasensiya na po’t kailangang kong ilabas.)

Oh My Gulay!

The Filipino language is¬†rich¬†in interesting idioms and expressions, that make our conversations more colorful. Like the expression, “isang bulate na lang ang hindi pumipirma,” which means near-death condition.¬†It definitely¬†sounds light-hearted on an otherwise grave predicament.

Anyways, since it’s summer here where I live, and¬†we have planted some vegetables,¬†I would like to showcase our use of vegetables (gulay) in our idioms and expressions, and their respective meaning.

1. Nagmumurang kamias.

This means an “old” individual acting like “young.” For instance, a grandma trying to dress-up like a¬†teenager, perhaps with a hanging shirt and short mini-skirt. In other words, it is used to describe people who are not acting appropriately their age.

Example: Pare, ‘yung lolo mo nagmumurang kamyas, niyaya ba¬†namang¬†i-date niya¬†‘yung¬†pinsan kong kolehiyala.

2. Pulis Patola

The term means a good-for-nothing cop. I think the term is use, as policeman usually carry a baton (batuta). But here it is described as the police carrying a patola instead of a baton.¬†There’s even an action-comedy movie with that title in the 1990’s.

The expression of “sundalong-kanin” have a similar connotation, a useless soldier whose only contribution in the battle is to consume the rice ration.

Example: Sabi ni General Bato, ititiwalag niya lahat ng mga Pulis Patola.

3. Nangangamatis

This term is used to describe something that is¬†swelled up and inflamed, like a tomato that is plump and red. But mostly the term is reserved for a complication after a boy’s¬†circumcision. Definitely you don’t want that term to describe the you-know-what after being circumcised.

Example: Hijo, pagkatapus mong tuliin, langgasin mo araw-araw, para hindi mangamatis.

4. Nangangamote

Nangangamote means having difficulty or failing to do well. We also use the term kamote to describe somebody who is dim-wit or unintelligent. For sure, you don’t want to be called anak ng kamote. You don’t want to receive the kalabasa award either.

I am not sure why we use kamote as a derogatory term. Kamote for all¬†I know is a highly nutritious food and don’t deserve to be treated with disdain.

Example: Nangamote ka naman sa exam, mas bobo ka pa sa row 4.

5. Mani-mani lang

This term is the opposite of nangangamote. Mani-mani lang means it was so easy that you breezed through it whatever it was. Again, I don’t know why we¬†favor mani (peanut), but hate kamote.

Mani is also used as a slang term for a female’s anatomy. Yes, the counterpart of that thing I mentioned above that can¬†become nangangamatis.

Example: Mana sa akin sa pagka-genius ‘yung pamangkin ko, kasi minani-mani lang niya ang Quantum Physics.

6. Giyera Patani

This is an old expression that means a fight or an argument without causing serious harm or consequences. As you know, a patani (lima bean), is a pod vegetable that has lightweight seeds. And even if you hit somebody with these seeds, it will not cause grave injury.

Example: Hanggang giyera patani lang naman ang away namin ng misis ko.

7. Pupulutin sa kangkungan

This term means a summary execution without having a trial. In other words it is extra judicial killing (EJK), which nowadays is a very hot topic of contention. The origin of the expression is that one way of hiding a “salvage” victim’s body is to dump it in the swamps or where there’s a heavy growth of kangkong (swamp cabbage).

Example: Kung hindi ka tumigil sa pagiging addict, baka pupulutin ka na lang sa kangkungan balang araw.

8. Mala-labanos ang kutis

This expression is comparing the complexion of someone’s skin to be like labanos (horse-radish), which is white and smooth. I am not sure though why we who are supposed to be proud to be lahing kayumanggi are so pre-occupied and trying so hard to be “white.” Just look around and we are so inundated with all those advertisements of whitening products.

Example: Gumagamit kasi ako ng mga Belo products kaya’t mala-labanos na ang kutis ko ngayon.

9. Parang luya

Unlike the expression mala-labanos which is mostly deemed as a compliment, the expression parang luya is far from being one. In fact it is an insult. The term is usually used to describe an ugly feet. This is due to the fact that luya (ginger) has crooked and contorted branching fingers.

Example: Kahit anong pa-pedicure mo, parang luya pa rin ang mga paa mo.

10. Balat-sibuyas

This term is used to describe a person that is easily hurt or sensitive to criticisms. This idiom is due to the fact that the onion has very thin skin. I am not sure if the added fact that peeling and cutting onion makes one cry, contributes to the meaning of the term.

Example: Balat-sibuyas naman itong si Dagul, sinabihan lang na malakas pa siya sa balyena kung kumain, ay umiyak na.

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That’s all for now folks. I know there’s still a lot of vegetables mentioned in the song Bahay Kubo that we have not covered here. So if you know more vegetable expressions, please drop me a comment. Thank you for reading.

 

ÔĽŅHamog

Parang kumot na sumusuklob sa damong giniginaw,

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O makapal na balabal na bumabalot sa paligid kong tanaw,

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At parang kurtinang tumatabing sa araw na sumisilaw,

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Ang mga ulap na humahalik sa lupa at nanliligaw,

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Gaya ng pag-ibig na tila hamog sa pusong nauuhaw.

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(*photos taken with an iPhone during my morning run)

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Post Note: since a reader asked, here’s the English translation for my non-Filipino readers and followers:

Dew
Like a blanket that covers the shivering grass,
Or a heavy cloak that the surrounding it wraps,
Or like a curtain that veils the sun’s glare,
Are the clouds that court and kiss the earth,
Just like love is like the dew to hearts that thirst.

 

Hagibis

Ako’y tumakbo kaninang umaga,

Sa amin dito sa Iowa,

Habang humahangos sa daan,

Ay aking pinakikinggan,

Maiingay na halakhak,

Ng mga ibong taratitat,

At sa aking paghingal,

Aking namang nalalanghap,

Ang mabangong halimuyak,

Ng mga bulaklak ng lilac.

Pero miss na miss ko na,

Mag-jogging sa Maynila,

Kung saan naghaharana,

Mga traysikel na umaarangkada,

At aking muling masasanghap,

Usok ng tambutsong kay sarap,

At takbo ko’y lalong bumibilis,

Parang anak ni Hagibis,

Dahil¬†ako’y hinahabol,

Ng mga asong nauulol.

(*Hagibis means speed in Tagalog, it is also a Filipino comics hero, and the name of an all-male pop group.)

 

Doorhenge

If you live near the equator, the time of the sunrise is almost the same throughout the year. When I was living in Manila, the earliest sunrise is about 5:30 in the morning, and the latest will be at 6:30. The more distance you live above or below the equator, the more the difference in the times of sunrises and sunsets through the year.

Where I live now here in Iowa, the earliest sunrise is at 4:40 (Standard time) in June, but due to Daylight Saving Time from March to November, so the adjusted time is 5:40 in the morning. We have about 15 hours of daylight at this time. Then the latest sunrise is at 7:40 in December, and have only 9 hours of daylight.

Have you also noticed that the sunrises and sunsets are¬†not in the same spot on the horizon all year? This is due to the tilt of the Earth’s axis of rotation, which is tilted at an angle of 23.5 degrees (sorry, I’m such a nerd). As a result, at some points in the orbit of Earth, the north pole is tilted towards the sun, and at other points it is tilted away from the sun, making the location of sunrises and sunsets different depending on the time of year.

By the way, that specific tilt of 23.5 degrees of Earth is also the reason for the different seasons of the year. But that is a subject of discussion perhaps for another time.

With regards to viewing sunrises, one enigma of our civilization is the ancient structure, the Stonehenge. One theory is that it was built as a celestial observatory. Though it could be an altar or some kind of sacred monument as well. In any case, it is built to have been perfectly arranged to face the midsummer sunrise, and midwinter sunset. So if you stand in just the right place inside the Stonehenge monument on the day of the northern summer solstice, you’ll see the sunrise align through those pillars.

A similar phenomenon also happens in New York City, when the setting of the sun aligns perfectly with the grid-pattern streets of Manhattan, which happens twice a year, typically in May and July. This is also known as the Manhattanhenge.

Interestingly, I have a similar event in my house here in Iowa. That is on a certain time of the year, the sunrise perfectly aligns with my front door and shines directly through the corridor and into our living room.

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When this happen, I know that we are halfway between the spring equinox and summer solstice. Or this is just time to let the sunshine in and start a new day.

Have a good day everyone!

(*photo taken last weekend with an iPhone)

 

 

 

Nanay

Mother’s Day. A day that the world be celebrating this coming Sunday. Long distance calls will be made (for those who live far away from home), flowers will be delivered, cards will be sent, visitations will be done, and restaurants will be full.

Mother’s Day in fact, is the busiest day for restaurants, at least here in America, but may be the same throughout the world. Perhaps families think that on that day, they would like to give moms a break in the kitchen, so they would dine out. Or perhaps they just wanted to celebrate and give them the attention they all do deserve.

This will be the third Mother’s Day since my mom passed away. Because my mom’s birthday is on the second week of May, so Mother’s Day (every 2nd Sunday of May) and her birthday celebration usually coincide. I will surely miss calling and talking to her.

For my wife, this will be their first Mother’s Day without their mother. She passed away last July. I will also miss calling and talking to my mother-in-law. After all, I am her “favorite” son-in-law. Just don’t tell the other sons-in-law.

For this Mother’s Day, I would like to share a tribute that my wife read on her mother’s funeral last year:

Nanay. Perhaps the first word I uttered. Perhaps the first word I really learned the true meaning of.

I know when I was very young and can barely walk and talk, I would say the word Nanay, and I am assured that I would be fed. I say Nanay, and my thirst would be quenched. I say Nanay, and  I would be safe. I would utter Nanay, and I would be taken care of.

Over the years of my life, the word Nanay has become synonymous to provider, protector, and love.

Now Nanay is gone. Never can I utter the word Nanay again with the same meaning, the same urgency, the same pleading anymore.

But I am glad Nanay had trusted and is now resting in the Lord, who is our true Provider, Protector, and encompass the true meaning of Love.

Goodbye Nanay. We will see you in that Great Morning.

For all of you who still have the chance to celebrate Mother’s Day with your moms, please value and cherish this opportunity, for we don’t know how many more opportunities we are given.

As for me, I would still be celebrating this day with the reigning world’s best mother in the world, at least in my perspective – the mother of my children. I hope there’s table for us and the restaurants are not too full.

For all the nanay in the world, may you have a happy and blessed Mother’s Day!

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“Duyan,” painting by Nestor Leynes

(*Nanay is the Filipino word for mother.)

 

Paalam Kaibigan

 

Alam kong hahantong sa ganito,

Hindi sa dahil hindi ko napagtanto,

Ngunit kahit pilitin ko mang itanggi,

Tuloy pa rin itong mangyayari.

 

Yakapin man kita nang mahigpit,

Hihilagpus ka pa rin sa aking bisig,

At ayaw man kitang bitiwan,

Takda ka pa ring lilisan.

 

Tinangay na nga ba ng kahapon,

O tinalikuran na ng panahon,

At¬†wari bang¬†ako’y iyo nang iniwan,

Sigabo ng aking kalakasan.

 

Habang sa salamin aking pinagmamasdan,

Ang anino na nasa aking harapan,

Anyo at kasagsagan ng kasiglahan,

Ay bakas na lamang ng nakaraan.

 

Ngunit hindi ko dapat ipagluksa,

Kun’di dapat pa ngang ipagsaya,

Kaibigan, minsan nating pinagsamahan,

Kaya’t paalam na, o aking kabataan.

(*thoughts as I hit half century of life; an ode, or maybe a eulogy, to my lost youth)

 

Little Things

While we were on a trip in Israel, we stopover for lunch in a restaurant overlooking the Sea of Galilee. Even though it is named the Sea of Galilee, it is actually a lake and not a sea.


Besides enjoying the view, I enjoyed the food there as well. The most popular in their menu being beside the Sea of Galilee is fish of course. And that was what I ordered.

After the meal I saw this sign on a wall.


That is absolutely correct. Be thankful for even the small stuffs in this life. Like a good meal. Or a beautiful day. Or a smile from a stranger. Appreciate the little things. Nothing wrong with this reminder, right?

Except that we must be careful on what we call  as “little things” as it could be a slight jab or even a downright insult. Depends on the situation, I guess. You don’t believe me?

Well, here’s the whole story of this sign.


(*Photos taken at a restaurant in Tiberias, Israel)